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David was born 1971 in Northamptonshire to a freshly divorced mother. His mother was married for 19 years and she and her husband Kenneth, couldn't have children. Kenneth thinking there is problem with her not being able to bear the child, started to abuse his wife psychologically and physically sometimes. They had a bar in Islington which Queenie,his wife was running most of the times. She was in her late thirties when she met married man Ron and they started to have an affair. Ron had wife and 4 children at the time but he promised to Queenie that he will divorce his wife and they can live together forever. Queenie was very unhappy in her marriage and very vulnerable at the time. She welcomed a new, nice, kind man in her life and after two years of affair she became pregnant at the age of 39. Ron's wife found out about their affair and went and had a chat with Queenie which caused Queenie to break up relationship with Ron.

Queenie went to have divorce from her husband Kenneth and she moved back with her parents. She was an only child and they dotted on her. But there was a big problem as Queenie's parents coming from posh background couldn't accept that Queenie will have baby and not be married. They blackmailed her by telling her that they will disown her if she keeps the baby and she had no choice but to give baby for adoption. Baby David was born and after two weeks he went to be adopted. He was adopted and spent his life wondering who his parents are. He didn't have roots he thought, and that caused him all sorts of psychological problems until he was 45. He then decided to do DNA test and I was very pleased to have been able to find his biological parents. Unfortunately they are both dead but I helped to David to connect with his dad's children who are his half siblings. Funny enough they all knew about baby and one of the sisters actually was looking to find him and connect. David's mum never had any more children and she regretted a big time having to give him for adoption. David now knows everything about about both of his parents and he has lots of pictures of them both. His psychological problems disappeared and he is able to lead completely normal life and enjoy himself. And how do I know all this? He is my husband 😀

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